NEW YORK: The allure of proposing on Christmas may be a romantic notion, but relationship expert Dr Jacquie Del Rosario sheds light on potential legal complexities that couples may overlook during the festive season.
In an exclusive conversation with PEOPLE, Del Rosario acknowledges the endearing nature of Christmas proposals but urges caution due to the legal ramifications that can arise in the event of a broken engagement.
Del Rosario emphasises a crucial aspect often overlooked by couples: the legal status of engagement rings. While the ring may symbolise a holiday gift within the context of the relationship, Del Rosario points out that, legally, engagement rings are often considered conditional gifts.
In the event of a broken engagement, the law dictates that the ring must be returned to the purchaser or the party not responsible for the breakup may retain the ring or its monetary value.
Addressing the financial aspect, Del Rosario acknowledges the potential costliness of engagement rings, particularly during the already-expensive Christmas season. She advises couples to be aware of the legal nuances in their state regarding engagement rings.
Additionally, Del Rosario suggests thoughtful alternatives, such as proposing a smaller gift before presenting the ring, especially if the partner values receiving gifts as a love language.
Del Rosario underscores the importance of clear and early communication between couples, especially when contemplating marriage.
Encouraging open discussions about expectations and potential legal implications, she advocates for addressing the topic of marriage well before the engagement.
Del Rosario urges couples to navigate these conversations before the holiday season, ensuring mutual understanding and alignment in their plans for the future.
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